Embracing strength, my journey as a veteran:
As a proud veteran of the Army National Guard, my journey from 1999 to 2010 was shaped by profound experiences and a deep sense of duty. Growing up as a Puerto Rican in a family that held our paternal last name in high regard, I felt an innate desire to step up and represent that name with honor. My family’s military legacy—my Uncle Mickey in the Army, Uncle Freddy in the Army National Guard, uncle Joseito in the Navy, and my grandfather, a veteran of the Korean War—instilled in me a sense of responsibility and pride. My father, who often spoke about his aspiration to serve, was a role model for me, emphasizing the values of commitment and resilience.
From a young age, I exhibited a rebellious spirit, eager to explore boundaries that seemed impossible for the women in my family. The military life not only fueled my ambition but also provided me with inner strength, teaching me to push forward even in the darkest moments. Each day in uniform was a testament to my determination to uphold my family’s legacy while forging my own path.
In 2010, after the recession hit, my family made the decision to move to upstate New York. This transition was significant, marking the end of my military service. Leaving behind the structure and camaraderie of military life was challenging. Returning to civilian life after a mobilization to Iraq felt like stepping into a different world. The problems of those around me seemed trivial compared to the realities I had faced in combat. Adjusting to this new life took time and perseverance, and I often found myself grappling with the confusion that came from being a Hispanic female veteran.
The saying, “Once a soldier, always a soldier,” resonates deeply with me. The values I learned in the military—integrity, discipline, and loyalty—continue to guide my life. The transition to civilian life was not merely about finding a new job or a new routine; it was about reconciling my past experiences with my present identity. There were moments when I felt isolated, navigating a landscape where my military experiences were often misunderstood or undervalued.
Throughout this journey, I have discovered an incredible support network among fellow veterans and the broader community. Sharing stories with others who have faced similar challenges has helped me process my experiences and understand the complexities of my identity as a Hispanic woman in a predominantly male space. I’ve learned to embrace my unique perspective, recognizing that my voice as a veteran is vital in advocating for representation and understanding.
As Veterans Day approaches, I encourage everyone to be kind to the veterans in their circle. Don’t just thank them for their service; ask if they need anything. Most veterans won’t ask for help, so offering support can be a true gift. If you or someone you know is struggling, please remember the Veterans Crisis Line at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or dial 988 then press 1. We are not alone in this journey, and together we can create a supportive community that uplifts those who have served. I am immensely proud of my service, and I am committed to promoting our veterans’ well-being.
If you’re a Veteran in crisis or concerned about one, contact the Veterans Crisis Line to receive 24/7, confidential support. You don’t have to be enrolled in VA benefits or health care to connect. To reach responders, Dial 988 then Press 1 , chat online at VeteransCrisisLine.net/Chat , or text 838255 .
Rosa Enid Arroyo-Vega
