English: Honey may I borrow your cell phone? “NO”Did you ever hear this and just cringe; “My husband locks his phone all the time…or HIDES it as soon as I get to know the password. When we argue he states no other couples share cell phone passwords. He talks about having cell phone privacy”. Wow! This is a very sensitive topic. What is your opinion?Is he hiding his phone? Does he change his password? Is the ringer on silent and if he looks at the phone he doesn’t tell you who it is and walks away? Are text messages automatically deleted?If your husband’s behavior has changed when using his phone then this could be a sign that something is going on and it’s not including you. I’m not talking about when it’s a few days close to your birthday and he is possibly throwing a surprise. I’m talking about if he gets defensive and gives you the whole privacy lecture. I can’t give you advice because I’m not certified. However If you ask me what happens in my house? I would tell you, it sounds SHADY and I believe he may be hiding something. Personally our phones are locked because we own businesses and would hate to violate our customer’s information. However my husband has my code and I have his. If we feel our phones have been compromised we change the code and inform each other. We are very transparent. A cheater will manipulate situations and lie to cover their tracks. Especially if he or she knows your self-esteem is already weak. Never question your instinct on things like this. Pay attention to his actions, not his words. Starting today, create healthy boundaries for yourself and realize that we show people how to treat us by what we will accept from them.
